My
interview with Daniela Norris,
author
of “Collecting Feathers”
Daniella Norris: Tell us a little about your
book and why you’ve written it.
Ram Das
Batchelder: “Rising in Love” is a vivid and very funny
portrayal of my 27 years with the renowned humanitarian and spiritual Master
known around the world as Amma, “the hugging Saint.” Wonderful stories of my direct
experiences with Amma flow through the book, and her teachings are sprinkled throughout.
This is not the usual scrubbed up ashram book — my journey is conveyed with raw
honesty and openness, and all of my human flaws, sexuality and ego games are boldly
exposed for all to laugh at!
The book also covers the years before I met Amma, focusing
on my marijuana-fuelled spiritual awakening during my college years in New York,
which led me into a period of grand delusion and confusion, which is both
hysterical and a bit scary. Eventually I was enabled to renounce drugs
completely, and only then did I meet Amma and start my spiritual quest in
earnest. But the fact that I literally went quite crazy for a couple of years,
and was close to suicide for a time, and ended up receiving full healing
through the power of spirituality, makes this book a beacon of hope for all who
suffer from addiction or mental illness of one kind or another.
“Rising in Love” shines new light on the whole question of
spiritual awakenings, and the plight of the many young ones in the West who
suddenly break into the discovery of the Divine, and begin having unusual
experiences in a culture which has little understanding of such things. I met
an angel when I was 21, received a life-changing visitation from Jesus, and
began hearing God’s voice teaching me very high knowledge – but I had no wise
context into which I could place my experiences. I knew nothing about Saints or
Self-Realization; in fact, I didn’t even know the spiritual path existed! In
the West, unfortunately, such awakenings are often misunderstood and harshly
judged, and these young souls get stuck with some kind of pathological psychiatric
label and their nascent awakening gets suppressed with heavy medication, rather
than nourished with the spiritually in-tune guidance and compassionate
counseling that would help their awakening blossom in a balanced way.
Above all, “Rising in Love” conveys the essence of
spirituality in an unusually clear and profound way, as it shares the path I’ve
traveled all the way from my early days of confusion and delusion to the
samadhi states and visions of Krishna and Christ that have blessed my journey
to date. And it reveals the divinity of Amma in a way perhaps more potent and
direct than any book to date.
I’m happy to report that “Rising in Love” has been selling so
fast that the publisher has had a hard time keeping it in stock on Amazon! It has
gotten amazing reviews, including an endorsement from the comedian Russell
Brand, who posted a photo of himself reading it on Twitter and Facebook for a combined
audience of 11.7 million. After 57 reviews on Amazon, “Rising in Love” has a
4.8 star average. One of my favorites came in just yesterday:
"I haven't read such a transformational, inspiring book
since Autobiography of a Yogi. This book is backlit by Amma’s divine light, and
as you read, it gradually unravels, illuminates and heals. Ram Das, through his
own crazy experiences, somehow brings you back home to self-acceptance,
offering a sense of relief that we are OK as we are, and makes everything alright,
no matter where we are on the path. Rising in Love does what the title
says... it raises you in love, is full of fun and, reading it in bed at night,
I often found myself giggling myself to sleep. When you feel bereft after
finishing a book, like I do now, you know it was a masterpiece. This book has
brought me back to Amma, confirms for me who she is and who I thought she was,
and somehow makes everything better."
~ Geni Lawrence, translator
By the way, the book is a charitable project: all royalties
from the sale of “Rising in Love” will be donated to Amma’s orphanage in
Kerala, India, which houses 600 children. These children consistently win top
academic and artistic awards in Kerala, and one-third go on to receive college
degrees. Unheard of in any other orphanage in the world, I dare say.
For more about the orphanage, and for reviews of “Rising in
Love,” plus sample chapters, info and links to Amazon, see www.rising-inlove.org.
DN: Tell us three interesting things about
yourself and your life.
RDB: My wife and I co-lead 5-star tours to the sacred cities of
India. We speak both Spanish and English, and know India like the backs of our
hands, which increasingly have these funny little age spots on them. These
tours are EXCELLENT. I give classes about various aspects of spirituality, so
people receive not just a tour, but the spiritual essence of India. Here is our
tour page: https://www.facebook.com/risinginlovetours.
Several years back I taught a course on Hinduism at a
university in Venezuela, which I boldly presented in my poorly pronounced
Español. The students loved it, and it was really a joy to blow their minds.
I recently gave up wheat, sugar, corn, dairy, dancing naked
on the roof, and peanuts. However, due to popular outcry, I have taken dancing
naked OFF the list, but have changed the timing to 2-3 am. During the day the
roof is frequented by elderly ladies, and I was receiving too many proposals.
DN: What do you think is people’s biggest
fear when they first embark on spiritual journeys?
RDB: My sense is that people have many fears about embarking on
the path, the most prominent being that if they go too far they might lose
their grip on reality and go insane. I understand that very well — in fact, I went
a little crazy myself in my early 20s, but somehow, by God’s grace, I went sane
again. As the book says, “If you want to go crazy, go crazy for God. Go bonkers
for anything else and you’re in big trouble. But if you lose your marbles for
the Lord, He’ll hold on to them for you, and return them, all polished up, at
just the right moment.”
Of course, people also fear losing their identity. They fear
discovering that the ego is just an illusion, and that what they have always
thought they were doesn’t really exist at all! Hahaha! It doesn’t! But the good
news is, what we really are is so incredibly beautiful that once we’ve
discovered the Self, losing the ego is a great joy and relief. Spirituality
gently and gradually prepares us for that precious discovery.
People also fear that they will be deceived by some false
teacher, and end up stuck in a cult which robs them of their freedom and forces
them to drink poisoned Koolaid. And who could blame them? There are indeed many
false teachers who do great harm to their disciples, and it is each one’s
responsibility to very carefully test a potential Guru, and be sure they’re not
being led astray by a wolf in sadhu’s clothing. One great thing about Amma is that
she is totally accessible: people can receive her embrace again and again, ask
her questions, and spend many hours in her presence. They can develop their own
relationship with Amma, and make up their own minds about who and what she is.
People also fear that others will judge and reject them due
to their spiritual quest. So often people are trapped in a web of family
expectations and cultural taboos from which they are afraid to break free, and
many remain stuck in that web for their entire lives.
One way I addressed this kind of bondage was that after
accepting Amma as my Guru, I made a cassette tape of songs and poetry which
included a recorded letter telling everyone all about Amma and the new name she
had given me. I then mailed it out to over 100 people, including Grandma and
all the old family friends. It was a very effective way of cutting through the
web of taboos and expectations, and saying, “Whether you like it or not, this
is what I’m doing with my life. And I’ll be happy to tell you all about it.” It
was a very empowering step. I received a few kind replies from old friends, and
even a nice note from Grandma, God bless her, as well as an overtly nasty
letter from the mother of a childhood friend. But was she really upset about
Amma, or just mad about that time I kissed her daughter and then didn’t call?
DN: Is there one person who had much
influence in your life, perhaps more so than others?
RDB: I have traveled extensively in India and have met many great
Gurus. I have seen numerous miracles and received powerful experiences from
several Saints, and I’m grateful to all of them. But there is no doubt that the
most powerful and inspiring Guru I have ever met is Amma. She has been an
incredible guide and inspiration, a beacon of divine Love, compassion and
wisdom, literally Divinity in a human form.
For two videos of Amma, and more about her life, teachings
and tours, see: http://www.rising-inlove.org/more-about-amma.html
DN: Please recommend three of your
favorite spirituality-related reads (books or magazines)
RDB: 1) “Miracle of Love: Stories about Neem Karoli Baba” by Ram
Dass
This is not by little ol’ me but the FAMOUS Ram Dass, who inexplicably
spells his name with 2 ss’s. This book is a collection of stories about his
Guru, a wacky, miracle-working, omniscient kind of fellow who will definitely
tap you on the shoulder while you read it, which is all the more remarkable
considering that he left his body many years ago.
2) “In Quest of God” by Swami Ramdas
This AGAIN is not by me, but by a Saint who wandered
rupee-less and barefoot around India for several years, remembering God
constantly through the repetition of a mantra. In due course he attained full
Enlightenment. He then wrote his own books in English, and his teachings are
sweet nectar.
“I Am That: Conversations with Nisargadatta Maharaj”, edited
by Maurice Frydman
Astonishing teachings which reveal our true nature as pure
Awareness.
DN: Is there anything else you’d like to
share with your readers?
RDB: Amma travels around the world each year giving free programs
where each person can receive an embrace from her. (This is how she gives her
blessing.) I heartily recommend that everyone come and receive a hug! But do me
a favor. If you’re really a nutcase, and are going to wander around naked at
the programs (like one lady I invited years ago), then don’t tell them I sent
you.
Amma’s yearly 6-week US Tour starts towards the end of May
in Seattle, and finishes mid-July in Boston. The tour dates will be posted
sometime in April on this site: www.amma.org.
Her European tour begins around Oct. 1st and finishes
mid-November. For tour details, see www.amma-europe.org.
For more about Amma’s charities, see www.embracingtheworld.org.
For more about “Rising in Love”, see www.rising-inlove.org.
Thank you!
DN: Thank you, Ram Das!